Tuesday, July 27, 2010

First kiss advice? (:?

i've been going out with my boyfriend for around 5 months+we haven't even kissed yet! we hug+hold hands+stuff, oh+we've kissed on the cheek a few times. the thing is, my two best friends both have boyfriends.. one started going out with her boyfriend the day before me+the my other best friend started going out with her boyfriend a few weeks ago. they've both kissed their boyfriends+i think it's time i did too. i really do want to! i just don't know whether he will want to+i'm abit scared incase i do it wrong. he told my best friend he is too shy, do you think i should just do it or wait? also, what was your first kiss like? any help welcomedFirst kiss advice? (:?
don't be pressured to do anything you aren't happy with however i think your'e ready. the facty youv'e kept him 5months says that!


these are my top tips/instructions. plus a few big no no's!! (it is something which comes quite naturally wants you are into it. it's more getting to the point where it flows that's hard!





1. sit down with him in the park or what ever and chat just be normal.


2. smile at him and look straight into him eyes then at him lips then his eyes.


3. he should get the idea!


wait until he's looking straight into your eyes and hold his gaze for a bit .


4 then lean in and from there it'll just happen!





make sure your'e on your own maybe until your both more comfortable with it somewhere like your room or the garden somewhere where he won't be nervous of his mates bursting in!!!!


he shouldnt be shy if you follow the tips he is probably just woried you won't kiss him back or something and doesn't want to look silly!





good luck!!First kiss advice? (:?
i think you should take charge. it will make him feel more comfortable most likely so he wont be so shy to kiss you. only tips i can give you on kissing is it comes naturally, make sure you have your eyes closed because sometimes you dont relize but they're opened, and dont kiss too hard or toooooooo passionate the first time you kiss him. my first experience wasnt how everyone describes it. fireworks and all that stuff (haha). it was bland, mainly bc i just met the guy but my best advice is just to tell you it comes naturally. :)
Just wanna start off by saying u'v done thr right thing by waiting. Not much people can say they had a good first kiss. I cant!!





I think u should make the first move cause he seems very shy!





The next time u are by urself and u are both comfortable and having a laugh put ur hand lightly on his face and pull him slowly towards u and then give him a long tender peck...see what he does from thr.....





Remember u both care for each other so it will turn out well.!! Good luck...
It's up to the both of you. I didnt kiss my girlfriend for 9 months. And when I did, it was AMAZING! don't feel bad for waiting. Don't feel pressured into anything. When the time is right, it'll happen :)
Don't rush it. It will happen when the time is right.


Oh jeez my first kiss was in a laundry room when I was 13 surrounded by my friends in a game of truth or dare. Horrible.
Dont be pressured into doing something just because your friends are. You cant actually get it wrong, really. Just go with the flow and wait until it feels right.








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i made out with my husband the day we started dating cause we have been friends for like ever so yea... as my bestie says YOU CAN DO IT!!!!


just kiss the man haha
Sweety, i don't know how you've gone 5 months with your boyfriend %26amp; you haven't even kissed him yet! That's crazy (:





I'd say, go for it.


You guys are together for a reason, you like each other. There's feelings there. Therefore, i really don't think he'd mind kissing you. (:


If you do go for it, just make your first one a peck, so it's not as nerve wracking. Then, as you guys make it a normal thing, you can further it to more.





Don't be scared. He's your boyfriend because he likes you.


I'm pretty sure with him being a boy, he'd like you to kiss him (:


Be sweet about it, but go for it.





My first kiss, my boyfriend at the time, like threw himself at me. i was so scared! i had no idea what he was doing, haha. But i was fine. You will be too (:





Good luck hun (:
it just happens when the time is right, or when you set the moos, slow dancing yay. no permission, a simple brush of the lips works and if she assecpts that then a little later, like while you are talking a breather from dancing or leaving or right after the first kiss(only on this one if she comes to you for another kiss)
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